According to a study that was published in the journal “Psychological Science”, women often apologize for everyday situations. It seems that the word “apology” received part of the justification for all the needs, desires and opinions that we have. That is why it may be time to focus on yourself and forget to care about what others say for your life!
Stop to lead your life path according to the critics of those around you and start to enjoy complete in everything you do, without apology.
See the following 10 things that every strong woman with high self-esteem should never care…
1. Relationship status
Being a single woman is not a crime, even though everyone around you constantly asking when you find a partner. On the other hand , you are free to have fun in an open relationship if thus feel comfortable and fulfilled. Whatever your relationship status is , that shouldn’t affect others.
Remember that being a mother is something you decide whether to have children ( and how ) or not. Forget all those statements that the decision not to have children is selfish and point toward the one you really want. If you do not want to have children, it is your choice. Those who are closest to you, will understand. Parenting is a lifelong commitment that you really have to desire, so you could do it without difficulties.
3. Parental style
Once you’we decided to be a mother you have to realize that there is no definition of a “good mother.” Every strong woman has her own style of education with one main purpose -well being of the child. That is why you should not allow those who think they are “better ” than you in this role, to affect you because they are not in your shoes, nor know your child as well as you.
4. Intimate life
Until you and your sexual partner are happy with what is happening between the sheets , nothing else matters . Researches shows that sex occurred for any other reason than wanting it, not only hurts your mood, but it can hurt your relationship. Whether you have sex daily , 2 times a week or once a month , this schedule does not define the health and happiness of your relationship.
5. Level Performance
Things almost never move according to plan, and that is why chances are that at the moment you are not where 5 years ago you thought you would be. But that does not mean that you have no ambitions nor that you are loser. If you really want your career and enjoy your daily work, then no doubt you’re on track. On the other hand, maybe you are too ambitious and work 24/7? Again, if you enjoy this rate, at this time of your life, no need to change anything. You best know your body and how it can endure.
6. The method for beauty
You need an hour to prepare for work ? Or , get out of bed, put on the first thing that will fall to your hands and hurry up to leave the house ? Regardless of your style, everything you need is to feel comfortable in your skin when you leave the house in order to be happier and more satisfied with your life. We all know that confidence comes from within and no makeup ( or lack of it) in order to shine bright.
7. Fashion selection
Many studies indicate that the clothes we wear strongly affects the way you feel about yourself. That is why you should choose clothes that feel nice, comfortable, and that you reflect you. This choice shouldn’t be affected by society , your best friend, your partner , or your mother.
8. Bikini Body
No matter your size , you are a woman that deserves to be monitored without conviction . Therefore focus your precious time and energy on living fully and stop besieging how you look naked. What is important is to take care of your health and you want yourself and everything else will come into place.
The pressure to look “young” has an extremely strong impact on women. Society constantly imposes a how should we feel in every life age, not taking into account the fact that every woman on this planet is different. You do not have to aspire to be “young” , but to invest in your health. Aging is a natural process in life which we all pass, and therefore you don’t have to explain about your age to anyone. If you are happy with the way you look and feel, then that is all that matters.
10 .Allocation of funds
You can not start the day without special coffee from your favorite coffee shop , or to end the week without a manicure ? Maybe you go shopping when you are nervous or every summer visiting a new country? You are an adult and mature woman who earns his money and therefore have the right to spend as you wish. Unless you are into debts , don’t worry and enjoy what you hardly earned.
“A woman is like a tea bag – you never know how strong woman she is until she gets in hot water.”